{"id":9495,"date":"2011-02-03T00:14:14","date_gmt":"2011-02-03T05:14:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=9495"},"modified":"2011-02-06T12:16:09","modified_gmt":"2011-02-06T17:16:09","slug":"the-coveted-situation-is-resolved-notes-on-nolan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/the-coveted-situation-is-resolved-notes-on-nolan\/","title":{"rendered":"The Coveted Situation Is Resolved; Notes on Nolan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hope that all of you who were so supportive of blogger Jennine Jacob of The Coveted have seen the good news. <a href=\"http:\/\/the-coveted.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/01\/the-coveted-resolved\/\" target=\"_blank\">Her situation is resolved<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I had offered to donate half the price of several ring styles to Jennine. Now I will redirect that money to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.women-in-need.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Women in Need<\/a>, in memory of my friend, clothing designer <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/01\/style-interrupted-a-tribute-to-charles-nolan\/\" target=\"_blank\">Charles Nolan<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<div id=\"attachment_9504\" style=\"width: 427px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/geekthreads.blogspot.com\/2009\/12\/true-fing-story.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9504\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9504   \" title=\"swearaudi\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/swearaudi.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"417\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/swearaudi.jpg 463w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/swearaudi-277x300.jpg 277w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-9504\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Audi models the swear rings. Get yours and cuss people out for a good cause. <\/p><\/div>\n<p>I went to Charles&#8217;s beautiful and moving funeral at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blessedsacramentnyc.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Church of the Blessed Sacrament<\/a> yesterday (It&#8217;s a lovely church. Worth taking a peek in if you&#8217;re ever on the Upper West Side of Manhattan). Of course, the funeral was beautiful because, as his partner Andy Tobias pointed out, Charles planned it, right down to the bright blue coffin. Charles did things right. Andy told us that one of Charles&#8217;s last projects was the remodeling of the exceptionally ugly hallway outside their apartment. Renovation was underway when Charles said, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to die until that hallway is done.&#8221; Andy said he initially considered keeping Charles around by asking the workers work more slowly &#8230; until he realized it was impossible for them to go slower than they already were. Instead, he explained that Mr. Nolan need the job done so he could take his leave. The workers finished the job on Thursday; Charles died in Andy&#8217;s arms on Sunday. Andy said that not only is Charles&#8217;s hallway the most beautiful hallway currently on the Upper West Side, but it&#8217;s the most beautiful hallway that will ever be on the Upper West Side. I believe it.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_9513\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.advocate.com\/News\/Daily_News\/2011\/01\/31\/Designer_Charles_Nolan_Dies_at_53\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9513\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9513\" title=\"andrewtobiascharlesnolan\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/andrewtobiascharlesnolan.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"390\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/andrewtobiascharlesnolan.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/andrewtobiascharlesnolan-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 390px) 100vw, 390px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-9513\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Andy (left) and Charles. From Advocate.com.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Andy also said that while reviewing the music for the funeral, he objected to one of\u00a0 Charles&#8217;s choices, saying it would have people bawling right from the start. &#8220;Well, I <em>hope<\/em> you&#8217;ll all be <em>slightly<\/em> devastated,&#8221; Charles retorted. I don&#8217;t know if he <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=DE87qpG_8_M\" target=\"_blank\">snapped his fingers in a Z formation<\/a> after saying that. Perhaps he said it very sweetly. But I would bet on it being sassy.\u00a0 You can get an idea of Charles&#8217;s sass by going to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.businessoffashion.com\/2011\/02\/charles-nolan-1957-2011.html\" target=\"_blank\">the Business of Fashion for an interview of Charles conducted by none other than Andy<\/a>. I particularly enjoyed these answers:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> &#8220;You really have no feel for this, do you?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Do you even <em>see<\/em> the clothes? You\u2019re really just trying to annoy me, aren\u2019t you?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>[Interviewee rolls eyes.]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I admit that I was crying over this post till I read that interview. Even though I remain &#8220;slightly devastated,&#8221; I laughed loud enough to receive a disdainful look from Henry the dog.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_9521\" style=\"width: 330px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/04\/henry-stays-on-top-of-his-reading\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9521\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9521\" title=\"henrybook\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/henrybook.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/henrybook.jpg 320w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/henrybook-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-9521\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&quot;I was taking a very important nap!&quot;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So, to sum things up:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/the-coveted.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/01\/the-coveted-resolved\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jennine is a happy camper<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>You can go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thecoveteur.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Coveteur<\/a> if you want to peek into people&#8217;s closets.<\/li>\n<li>Half the purchase price of my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Swear-Rings\" target=\"_blank\">swear rings<\/a>,<a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=OMG-Rings\" target=\"_blank\"> OMG<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=LOL-Rings\" target=\"_blank\">LOL<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=NYC-Rings\" target=\"_blank\">NYC<\/a> rings will go to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.women-in-need.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Women in Need<\/a>, Charles Nolan&#8217;s preferred charity, through the end of the month.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Got it? Good.<\/p>\n<p>UPDATED TO ADD: Gorgeous blogger Mardel of RestingMotion got a set of swear rings. Thanks to donating to Women in Need, Mardel!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<div id=\"attachment_9534\" style=\"width: 423px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/restingmotion.typepad.com\/restingmotion\/2011\/02\/f.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9534\" class=\"size-large wp-image-9534  \" title=\"IMG_4499\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/IMG_4499-765x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"413\" height=\"553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/IMG_4499-765x1024.jpg 765w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/IMG_4499-224x300.jpg 224w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/IMG_4499.jpg 928w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 413px) 100vw, 413px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-9534\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to read Mardel&#39;s post.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>UPDATED FEB. 6, 2011, TO ADD: Charles&#8217;s brother Ken has kindly shared photos of Charles&#8217;s beautiful hallway.<\/p>\n<div><object style=\"width: 400px; height: 320px;\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"name\" value=\"flashticker\" \/><param name=\"align\" value=\"middle\" \/><param name=\"flashvars\" value=\"cy=bb&amp;il=1&amp;channel=3530822107906876942&amp;site=widget-0e.slide.com\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/widget-0e.slide.com\/widgets\/slideticker.swf\" \/><param name=\"wmode\" value=\"transparent\" \/><param name=\"quality\" value=\"high\" \/><embed style=\"width: 400px; height: 320px;\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"http:\/\/widget-0e.slide.com\/widgets\/slideticker.swf\" quality=\"high\" wmode=\"transparent\" flashvars=\"cy=bb&amp;il=1&amp;channel=3530822107906876942&amp;site=widget-0e.slide.com\" align=\"middle\" name=\"flashticker\"><\/embed><\/object><\/p>\n<div style=\"width: 400px; text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.slide.com\/pivot?cy=bb&amp;at=un&amp;id=3530822107906876942&amp;map=2\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/widget-0e.slide.com\/p2\/3530822107906876942\/bb_t000_v000_s0un_f00\/images\/xslide2.gif\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hope that all of you who were so supportive of blogger Jennine Jacob of The Coveted have seen the good news. Her situation is resolved. I had offered to donate half the price of several ring styles to Jennine. Now I will redirect that money to Women in Need, in memory of my friend,&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/the-coveted-situation-is-resolved-notes-on-nolan\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9504,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,53,83],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9495","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blogs-and-bloggers","8":"category-charity","9":"category-gorgeous-friends","10":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9495"}],"version-history":[{"count":35,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9495\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9522,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9495\/revisions\/9522"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}