{"id":902,"date":"2008-10-27T21:01:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-28T04:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=902"},"modified":"2008-10-27T21:01:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-28T04:01:00","slug":"open-letter-to-adventurous-dressers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/10\/open-letter-to-adventurous-dressers\/","title":{"rendered":"Open Letter to Adventurous Dressers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Adventurous Dressers:<br \/>I love y&#8217;all. You peeps are total eye candy. I am always thankful when I see someone with unique style. But if you&#8217;re dressing in an eye-catching way, don&#8217;t <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">whine*<\/span> when people stare at you. Hello! <a href=\"http:\/\/idioms.thefreedictionary.com\/eye-catching\">Thefreedictionary.com<\/a> defines &#8220;eye-catching&#8221; as &#8220;to be attractive or different enough to be noticed by people.&#8221;  So why are you surprised when people stare at your <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><\/span>homemade tutu? Or snicker at your crazy leggings? Be real. People are going to look &#8212; and, admit it &#8212; don&#8217;t you kind of like it? My advice is to take sideways glances and even snide comments and outright insults as compliments. If you don&#8217;t have the guts for that, buy some t-shirts and jeans at the mall and go unnoticed.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2005\/11\/17\/fashion\/thursdaystyles\/17IRIS.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_gTmdbGeiE-E\/SP65Kdr5YMI\/AAAAAAAAEyk\/dxP-S7S3rTI\/s320\/17iris_xl-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5259845004233892034\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-size:85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">I bet <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2005\/11\/17\/fashion\/thursdaystyles\/17IRIS.html\">Iris Apfel <\/a>doesn&#8217;t cry like a baby when people stare.<\/span><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Tough love from,<br \/>WendyB<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size:85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">*There&#8217;s a difference between telling a great story <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">(like <a href=\"http:\/\/kingdomofstyle.typepad.co.uk\/my_weblog\/2008\/05\/me-the-eyesore.html\">this one<\/a>) <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\"> about people&#8217;s reactions and whining. All I can say is I know it when I see it.<\/span><\/span> <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Adventurous Dressers:I love y&#8217;all. You peeps are total eye candy. I am always thankful when I see someone with unique style. But if you&#8217;re dressing in an eye-catching way, don&#8217;t whine* when people stare at you. Hello! Thefreedictionary.com defines &#8220;eye-catching&#8221; as &#8220;to be attractive or different enough to be noticed by people.&#8221; So why&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/10\/open-letter-to-adventurous-dressers\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,18,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-blogs-and-bloggers","category-clothes","category-style-icons","entry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=902"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}