{"id":484,"date":"2008-03-25T21:16:00","date_gmt":"2008-03-26T04:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=484"},"modified":"2012-04-30T00:04:04","modified_gmt":"2012-04-30T04:04:04","slug":"engaging-engagement-rings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/engaging-engagement-rings\/","title":{"rendered":"Engaging Engagement Rings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Contrary to popular belief, engagement rings don&#8217;t have to be boring. A round solitaire is about as traditional a stone as you can get, but even those can be spiced up. I encourage clients to be creative. In 2007 or so, my gorgeous client Deb and her husband asked for an engagement ring in which two dragonflies were supporting a center stone. What can I say? The girl likes bugs. (If you like bugs too, I encourage you to get a ring from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.krikawa.com\/jewelry\/body-of-work\/details.aspx?style=30\" target=\"_blank\">Lisa Krikawa<\/a>, who is the originator of the look and executes it way better than I do.)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10622\" style=\"width: 522px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2007\/10\/pining-for-saipan\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10622\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10622 \" title=\"dragonfly_saipan_1\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/dragonfly_saipan_1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"384\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/dragonfly_saipan_1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/dragonfly_saipan_1-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-10622\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The ring enjoying its life in Saipan with Deb.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Deb was trying to keep costs down so instead of using a diamond for her center stone, I cut a white sapphire to the measurements of a one-carat diamond. White sapphire is much less expensive than a diamond so Deb could get a sizable stone. It&#8217;s also the next hardest stone after diamond and\u00a0 can hold up to daily wear. I prefer it to more fragile semi-precious stones because, <a href=\"http:\/\/wbjewelry.blogspot.com\/2008\/03\/helpful-hints-for-owners-of-precious.html\">as I&#8217;ve mentioned<\/a>, people are not always very nice to their jewelry. Also a lot of people don&#8217;t know about white sapphires so it&#8217;s fun to tell them about that if you like a conversation piece.<\/p>\n<p>For some peculiar reason, I went for a traditional round diamond solitaire myself. I&#8217;m not exactly the traditional type, so I compensated with an eye-catching design that I&#8217;ve posted <a href=\"http:\/\/wbjewelry.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/with-this-ring-i-give-thee-beatdown.html\">before<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/wbjewelry.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/with-this-ring-i-give-thee-beatdown.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5181851306778454866\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_gTmdbGeiE-E\/R-miTxNsa1I\/AAAAAAAAChk\/e-LP-P_MAtg\/s200\/RingProfile.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/wbjewelry.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/with-this-ring-i-give-thee-beatdown.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5181851207994207042\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_gTmdbGeiE-E\/R-miOBNsa0I\/AAAAAAAAChc\/_GhnelwfEDs\/s200\/RingMainView.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-size: 100%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic; font-size: 85%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Ring \u00a9 Wendy Brandes 2007-2008<\/span><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Photography by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.squaremoose.com\/\">SquareMoose<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>I dare you to tell me that ring is boring. Seriously, I dare you, because I am dying to give someone a beatdown with that thing. People <a href=\"http:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/kvell\">kvell<\/a> over it all the time, including people who have seen &#8212; and worn &#8212; much bigger stones than my center stone. It&#8217;s the design that makes it so eye-catching.<\/p>\n<p>If I had to do it all over again, I&#8217;d probably pick an oval stone.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/famousdiamonds.tripod.com\/unnamed63caratovaldiamond.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5181852917391190882\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_gTmdbGeiE-E\/R-mjxhNsa2I\/AAAAAAAAChs\/xkthdlGHBLs\/s200\/ovaldiamond.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-size: 85%;\"><span style=\"font-style: italic;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/famousdiamonds.tripod.com\/unnamed63caratovaldiamond.html\">63.93 carats<\/a> might be overdoing it though<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Oval would be my #1 recommendation to anyone who is turned off by a round stone. I love cushion-cut stones too. You can see the different diamond shapes <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thediamondbuyingguide.com\/diamondshapes.html\">here<\/a>. Any stone shape can be made into a fascinating, nontraditional ring.<\/p>\n<p>Feel free to contact me at wbjewelry at hotmail dot com if you want to discuss a custom engagement ring. Just keep in mind that I don&#8217;t do &#8220;surprise&#8221; rings. The woman&#8217;s going to wear it, so my rule is she&#8217;s got to be involved in the design. That way everyone is happy. Especially me, and that&#8217;s important because you don&#8217;t want to see me unhappy. All must fear the wrath of the beatdown ring.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, the diamond IS the <a href=\"http:\/\/geology.csupomona.edu\/alert\/mineral\/hardness.htm\">hardest naturally occurring substance<\/a> but that doesn&#8217;t mean it is indestructible. If it was, we wouldn&#8217;t be able to shape it, would we? (Before lasers, diamond shapes were created by tools that used other diamonds.) Stay tuned for another diamond post in which I&#8217;ll clear up other common misconceptions. <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Contrary to popular belief, engagement rings don&#8217;t have to be boring. A round solitaire is about as traditional a stone as you can get, but even those can be spiced up. I encourage clients to be creative. In 2007 or so, my gorgeous client Deb and her husband asked for an engagement ring in which&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/engaging-engagement-rings\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10622,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[120,523,43,6],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-484","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-diamonds","8":"category-engagement-rings","9":"category-my-designs","10":"category-rings","11":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=484"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/484\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15452,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/484\/revisions\/15452"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}