{"id":4524,"date":"2010-03-09T18:02:23","date_gmt":"2010-03-09T23:02:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=4524"},"modified":"2013-09-23T15:27:32","modified_gmt":"2013-09-23T19:27:32","slug":"jewel-of-the-month-freudian-links","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/jewel-of-the-month-freudian-links\/","title":{"rendered":"Jewel of the Month: Freudian Links"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Like I said yesterday, <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/at-least-there-were-no-cement-shoes\/\" target=\"_blank\">crazy is the new chic<\/a>, so my sterling silver Sigmund Freud cufflinks are the Jewel of the Month.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4526\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Freud-Cufflinks\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4526\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4526  \" title=\"bigFreud Cufflinks-1257281730\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/bigFreud-Cufflinks-12572817301.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/bigFreud-Cufflinks-12572817301.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/bigFreud-Cufflinks-12572817301-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-4526\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to buy Freud. He&#8217;s $400.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>These cufflinks would be a thoughtful gift for the well-dressed psychiatrist, psychologist or psychopath in your life.\u00a0 People who don&#8217;t fall into any of those categories like the cufflinks too: MrB, who is neither in the medical profession nor certifiably insane, loved them so much that I gave him his own set. When he was interviewed by Canada&#8217;s National Post recently, the cufflinks got their own shout-out: &#8220;<em>Dapper in silver Sigmund Freud cufflinks made by his wife, he is a veteran journalist who retired from the top of one of the world&#8217;s top news operations to pursue his vision of public service..<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I never would have gotten that nice, though nameless, mention if it weren&#8217;t for gorgeous blogger <a href=\"http:\/\/www.trenddelacreme.com\/2009\/07\/tell-me-about-your-childhood.html\" target=\"_blank\">Jill of Trend de la Creme<\/a>. She requested a Freud design as a gift for her husband for his graduation from medical school. I liked her idea and the result so much that I added the design to my line. This is the second time I&#8217;ve added a custom-ordered cufflink from <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/two-jills\/\" target=\"_blank\">a Jill<\/a> to my line: the first was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Mud-Flap-Jill-Necklace-%252d-Yellow-Gold\" target=\"_blank\">Mud Flap Jill<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Most custom work doesn&#8217;t make it into my line. Sometimes, the design is very specific to the client, like <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2009\/12\/custom-canine-cufflinks-for-christmas\/\" target=\"_blank\">these dog cufflinks<\/a>. Other times I&#8217;m creating a new design for a <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/three-bloggers-two-hats-one-ring\/\" target=\"_blank\">client&#8217;s old gems<\/a>, in which case I&#8217;ll do a one-off, hand-made setting that accommodates the exact <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2009\/01\/gratifying\/\" target=\"_blank\">sizes and shapes of those stones<\/a>. Sometimes a client specifically requests a piece that will remain forever one-of-a-kind.<\/p>\n<p>If I do want to add a custom design to my line, I&#8217;ll ask the client. And when that happens, it&#8217;s the client&#8217;s lucky day because she is going to save some money. Why is that? The short answer is that I&#8217;m going to absorb some of the manufacturing costs that the client would normally pay for a one-of-a-kind piece. Of course, with me there&#8217;s always a long answer too. Come back tomorrow for that. Right now I have some Freudian issues to deal with. Did you know that the famous quote &#8220;Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar&#8221; is merely attributed to Freud? It hasn&#8217;t been proven that he said it or wrote it . (<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Rudyard_Kipling\" target=\"_blank\">Rudyard Kipling<\/a> was the one who wrote, &#8220;And a woman is only a woman, but a good cigar is a smoke.&#8221;) Freud definitely did write, &#8220;What does a woman want?&#8221; He said it was a question that had never been answered. That drives me fucking crazy, no pun intended. The Wife of Bath&#8217;s Tale in <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Geoffrey_Chaucer\" target=\"_blank\">Chaucer<\/a>&#8216;s Canterbury Tales is all about that question and explicitly answers it: &#8220;<em>Wommen desiren to have sovereynetee<\/em>&#8221; (&#8220;<em>Women want to have sovereignty<\/em>&#8220;). I especially like these two lines: &#8220;<em>And eek I praye Jhesu shorte hir lyves\/That noght wol be governed by hir wyves<\/em>.&#8221; (Translation: &#8220;<em>And I pray that Jesus shorten the lives\/Of those that won&#8217;t be governed by their wives.<\/em>&#8220;)<\/p>\n<p>In addition to sovereignty, some women might want a necklace version of Freud, so I&#8217;ve got one in sterling silver for $275. Email me at wbjewelry at hotmail dot com if you&#8217;re interested! <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Like I said yesterday, crazy is the new chic, so my sterling silver Sigmund Freud cufflinks are the Jewel of the Month. These cufflinks would be a thoughtful gift for the well-dressed psychiatrist, psychologist or psychopath in your life.\u00a0 People who don&#8217;t fall into any of those categories like the cufflinks too: MrB, who is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/jewel-of-the-month-freudian-links\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4525,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[141,341,49,295,43,145],"tags":[434,433,432],"class_list":{"0":"post-4524","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cufflinks","8":"category-custom-work","9":"category-in-the-news","10":"category-jewel-of-the-month","11":"category-my-designs","12":"category-silver","13":"tag-psychiatrists","14":"tag-psychologists","15":"tag-sigmund-freud","16":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4524","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4524"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4524\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22519,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4524\/revisions\/22519"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}