{"id":34600,"date":"2016-11-03T23:51:37","date_gmt":"2016-11-04T03:51:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=34600"},"modified":"2016-11-04T00:02:03","modified_gmt":"2016-11-04T04:02:03","slug":"throwback-thursday-whos-got-the-button","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/throwback-thursday-whos-got-the-button\/","title":{"rendered":"Throwback Thursday: Who&#8217;s Got the Button?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In 2014,<a href=\"http:\/\/tidyingup.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Marie Kondo<\/a> wrote the book on decluttering. Literally.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing\/dp\/1607747308\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing <\/em><\/a>was a #1 New York Times bestseller. Fans are devoted to Kondo&#8217;s &#8220;KonMari&#8221; method for organizing their homes.<\/p>\n<p>You will not find Kondo&#8217;s book perched in my extensive bookshelves.\u00a0 If you look long and hard enough, however, you might locate a ripped-out New York Times page printed with Dominique Browning&#8217;s 2015 article, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2015\/05\/31\/style\/lets-celebrate-the-art-of-clutter.html\" target=\"_blank\">Let&#8217;s Celebrate the Art of Clutter<\/a>.&#8221; I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s around here somewhere. Check the floor!<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I&#8217;ve decided that whether you&#8217;re a minimalist neat freak like Kondo or a maximalist packrat like me, you should commit to the lifestyle fully. Keep nothing or keep everything. (Obviously, if you&#8217;re on the &#8220;everything&#8221; side, stay within the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Collyer_brothers\" target=\"_blank\">limits of sanity<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aetv.com\/shows\/hoarders\" target=\"_blank\">No animal carcasses, please<\/a>.) It&#8217;s a mistake to keep practically everything and then &#8212; in a brief, crazy moment of &#8220;uncluttering&#8221; &#8212; toss one or two items. Whenever I do that, I don&#8217;t free up any meaningful space, but do manage to lose something with meaning.\u00a0 I&#8217;m still scouring eBay for <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/02\/grow-your-own-vintage-by-breaking-the-rules\/\" target=\"_blank\">the silver Todd Oldham t-shirt that I wore in the early 1990s<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This week, I searched in vain for a button (or a badge, depending on the word you prefer) that I got around the same time as the Oldham top. I did find three other buttons.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-34604\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/buttons.jpg\" alt=\"buttons\" width=\"457\" height=\"460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/buttons.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/buttons-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/buttons-298x300.jpg 298w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/buttons-300x302.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 457px) 100vw, 457px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;I Care&#8221; button is probably from 1993 or 1994, the years I did <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2014\/11\/throwback-thanksgiving-thursday-aids-dance-a-thon-1994\/\" target=\"_blank\">AIDS Dance-a-Thons<\/a>. I&#8217;m pretty sure I got the top two at a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.history.com\/this-day-in-history\/abortion-rights-advocates-march-on-washington\" target=\"_blank\">pro-choice march on Washington in 1992<\/a>.\u00a0 That would have been the same time and place I got the button that said something like, &#8220;Vote for Hillary&#8217;s Husband.&#8221; I thought that would be an interesting artifact to share ahead of next week&#8217;s election, but it is nowhere to be found. I&#8217;m also missing a button that I got in the mid-&#8217;80s that said, &#8220;It&#8217;s Frank Sinatra&#8217;s world. We just live in it.&#8221; (It was hilarious to me at the time.) I&#8217;m sure I had those two buttons till relatively recently and I&#8217;m convinced that in a fleeting KonMari instant, I thought, &#8220;Wow, it will really tidy things up if I get rid of these two buttons.&#8221; Yeah right. That made a <a href=\"http:\/\/mentalfloss.com\/article\/71417\/why-do-some-people-say-yuge-instead-huge\" target=\"_blank\">YUGE<\/a> difference around here!  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2014, Marie Kondo wrote the book on decluttering. Literally.\u00a0 The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing was a #1 New York Times bestseller. Fans are devoted to Kondo&#8217;s &#8220;KonMari&#8221; method for organizing their homes. You will not find Kondo&#8217;s book perched in my extensive bookshelves.\u00a0 If you look&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/11\/throwback-thursday-whos-got-the-button\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":34604,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[726,58,49,143,607],"tags":[947,972,764,973,971,974,975],"class_list":{"0":"post-34600","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-art-entertainment","8":"category-books","9":"category-in-the-news","10":"category-politics","11":"category-throwback-thursday","12":"tag-election-day","13":"tag-gmhc","14":"tag-hillary-clinton","15":"tag-marie-kondo","16":"tag-pro-choice","17":"tag-tbt","18":"tag-throwback","19":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34600","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34600"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34600\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34607,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34600\/revisions\/34607"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34600"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34600"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34600"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}