{"id":33739,"date":"2016-08-16T23:59:43","date_gmt":"2016-08-17T03:59:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=33739"},"modified":"2016-08-17T01:56:28","modified_gmt":"2016-08-17T05:56:28","slug":"the-great-simones-and-gabby-douglas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/the-great-simones-and-gabby-douglas\/","title":{"rendered":"The Great Simones and Gabby Douglas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last year, the name &#8220;Simone&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.babycenter.com\/baby-names-simone-4160.htm\" target=\"_blank\">was number 820 on the list of popular names<\/a> for baby girls in the U.S. I expect that in 2016 and 2017, that name will be several hundred places higher, thanks to the awe-inspiring Olympian Simones.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_33740\" style=\"width: 508px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Luvvie\/status\/764130953274941440\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33740\" class=\"wp-image-33740\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/gameofsimones-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"Click for source.\" width=\"498\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/gameofsimones-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/gameofsimones-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/gameofsimones-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/gameofsimones.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 498px) 100vw, 498px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-33740\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click for source.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Gymnast Simone Biles won her fourth gold medal at the Rio Olympics today. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/08\/16\/sports\/olympics\/rio-schedule-simone-biles-results.html?_r=0\" target=\"_blank\">Only three other female gymnasts have won four golds in a single Olympics &#8212; the last time it happened was 32 years ago<\/a>! And you&#8217;d have to have a heart of stone if you didn&#8217;t get emotional last week when swimmer Simone Manuel became <a href=\"http:\/\/www.espn.com\/olympics\/swimming\/story\/_\/id\/17280645\/olympics-2016-simone-manuel-gold-liberating-page-olympics-history-turned\" target=\"_blank\">the first African-American woman to win an individual swimming medal at any Olympic Games<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<div class=\"getty embed image\" style=\"background-color:#fff;display:inline-block;font-family:'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;color:#a7a7a7;font-size:11px;width:100%;max-width:594px;\">\n<div style=\"padding:0;margin:0;text-align:left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/588639956\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color:#a7a7a7;text-decoration:none;font-weight:normal !important;border:none;display:inline-block;\">Embed from Getty Images<\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"overflow:hidden;position:relative;height:0;padding:66.666667% 0 0 0;width:100%;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/embed.gettyimages.com\/embed\/588639956?et=P75v3PxeROhstjscRHZUTg&#038;viewMoreLink=on&#038;sig=yo04BBDA4y4B7ZIt2G-Td2ukErd3Hbp3cn6IpcDXIec=&#038;caption=true\" width=\"594\" height=\"396\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"display:inline-block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;margin:0;\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p style=\"margin:0;\">\n<\/div>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>I just hope these two women don&#8217;t suffer the post-medal backlash that Biles&#8217;s teammate, Gabby Douglas, has experienced. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcolympics.com\/news\/gabby-douglas-london-rio\" target=\"_blank\">Douglas was a star of the 2012 Olympics in London, becoming the first African-American to win an Olympic all-around gold medal for gymnastics (she also won a gold medal as part of the U.S. team)<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/ive-got-love-for-the-olympics-women-plus-miley-cyrus\/\" target=\"_blank\">She was also one of the many Olympic women abused for her appearance<\/a> during those games. In Douglas&#8217;s case, it was her hair that offended certain onlookers. Only 16 at the time, she bore the negativity with remarkable good spirits. <\/p>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<div class=\"getty embed image\" style=\"background-color:#fff;display:inline-block;font-family:'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;color:#a7a7a7;font-size:11px;width:100%;max-width:594px;\">\n<div style=\"padding:0;margin:0;text-align:left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/149695481\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color:#a7a7a7;text-decoration:none;font-weight:normal !important;border:none;display:inline-block;\">Embed from Getty Images<\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"overflow:hidden;position:relative;height:0;padding:66.666667% 0 0 0;width:100%;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/embed.gettyimages.com\/embed\/149695481?et=-bINnAxARK1h6bGiZ3cXlA&#038;viewMoreLink=on&#038;sig=I8DArRUEg5d3r-UaE4lQ9mWC2LgQx4hlNZvKP-hj1nY=&#038;caption=true\" width=\"594\" height=\"396\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"display:inline-block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;margin:0;\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p style=\"margin:0;\">\n<\/div>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Who knew that she would go through even worse at the 2016 Olympics? First, there was the drummed-up outrage over Gabby&#8217;s standing at attention &#8212; but not putting her hand over her heart &#8212; during the playing of the national anthem during the ceremony for the team&#8217;s gold medal.<\/p>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<div class=\"getty embed image\" style=\"background-color:#fff;display:inline-block;font-family:'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;color:#a7a7a7;font-size:11px;width:100%;max-width:594px;\">\n<div style=\"padding:0;margin:0;text-align:left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gettyimages.com\/detail\/587768884\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"color:#a7a7a7;text-decoration:none;font-weight:normal !important;border:none;display:inline-block;\">Embed from Getty Images<\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"overflow:hidden;position:relative;height:0;padding:66.666667% 0 0 0;width:100%;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/embed.gettyimages.com\/embed\/587768884?et=vWyx4a2pRfBDxqxIy3vD4g&#038;viewMoreLink=on&#038;sig=NJC5FAWvjuMSi3KmRO2NGWi1s5U_xz9etZxTrzLdtaY=&#038;caption=true\" width=\"594\" height=\"396\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"display:inline-block;position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;margin:0;\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p style=\"margin:0;\">\n<\/div>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<p>All you have to do is spend a minute on <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/search-engine-self-censorship\/\" target=\"_blank\">Poodle<\/a> searching for &#8220;national anthem hand&#8221; and you&#8217;ll see that people have been confused about the anthem etiquette for years. In 2012, so many people at the Super Bowl failed to place their hands over their hearts &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/blogs\/politics\/2012\/02\/national-anthem-etiquette-what-to-do-at-a-sporting-event-or-political-rally\/\" target=\"_blank\">players and spectators &#8212; that ABC News did a story about it<\/a>. Before that, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.snopes.com\/politics\/obama\/anthem.asp\" target=\"_blank\">then-senator Barack Obama<\/a> came in for criticism when he kept his hands down in 2007. You can see random-ass people debating the issue back in 2006 and 2010 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usa-flag-site.org\/forum\/threads\/when-to-put-your-hand-over-your-heart.926\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>. People are all over the place on a gesture that came about in 1942 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.smithsonianmag.com\/smart-news\/rules-about-how-to-address-us-flag-came-about-because-no-one-wanted-to-look-like-a-nazi-180960100\/\" target=\"_blank\"> just because the traditional flag salute looked exactly like the Nazi salute<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.foxsports.com\/olympics\/story\/gabby-douglas-usa-gymnastics-anthem-apology-081016\" target=\"_blank\">So Gabby Douglas felt obligated to apologize for her actually-very-common anthem posture<\/a>, but that wasn&#8217;t the end of it. <a href=\"http:\/\/hollywoodlife.com\/2016\/08\/12\/gabby-douglas-shades-simone-biles-salty-look-video-olympics\/\" target=\"_blank\">Next, she was slammed for not looking enthusiastic enough when Simone Biles and Aly Reisman scored the top two places in the qualifying event for the individual all-around<\/a>. Gabby finished third in that event, and only the top two scorers from each country get to move on, so she wasn&#8217;t going to compete in the event in which she had triumphed during the London Olympics. My guess: Anyone who is <em>that<\/em> disturbed by Douglas&#8217;s expression has never been in the running for a really big award. I can say from personal experience, it&#8217;s hard to control the disappointment &#8212; even in competitions that you don&#8217;t age out of by the time you&#8217;re 22. Yeah, you applaud and congratulate the winner but it can be a challenge to plaster on a big grin.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/2015\/10\/29\/we_have_nothing_to_smile_about_an_earnest_plea_to_men_to_shut_up_have_a_seat_and_listen_partner\/\" target=\"_blank\">Of course, it&#8217;s no surprise when a woman is told to smile no matter how she&#8217;s feeling<\/a>, but why was Gabby&#8217;s stoicism so much more offensive than various other Olympic reactions? (That&#8217;s a rhetorical question. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vox.com\/2016\/8\/15\/12476322\/gabby-douglas-rio-olympics-racism\" target=\"_blank\">We know why<\/a>.) <a href=\"http:\/\/mashable.com\/2016\/08\/12\/chinese-gymnast-shang-chunsong-cries\/#fJO9q9ozaSqT\" target=\"_blank\">Chinese gymnast Shang Chunsong cried when she missed a bronze medal<\/a>. The swimming star of 2012, Missy Franklin, had a disastrous time in Rio and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.denverpost.com\/2016\/08\/11\/missy-franklin-200-meter-backstroke-semifinal\/\" target=\"_blank\">wound up teary<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/news\/sporting-scene\/olympic-swimmings-finger-wagging-moment\" target=\"_blank\">Swimmers Lily King and Yulia Efimova wagged fingers at each other<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/4446337\/rio-2016-olympics-michael-phelps-laughing-national-anthem\/\" target=\"_blank\">Swimmer Michael Phelps laughed his way through one rendition of the national anthem<\/a>, while his <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/pearls-in-the-pool-for-olympians-only\/\" target=\"_blank\">mean game face before a race was treated with affectionate humor<\/a>. The latter was <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/ive-got-love-for-the-olympics-women-plus-miley-cyrus\/\" target=\"_blank\">similar to the way that U.S. gymnast McKayla Maroney&#8217;s &#8220;unimpressed&#8221; silver-medal face<\/a> became <a href=\"http:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/mckayla-is-not-impressed\" target=\"_blank\">a light-hearted meme during the 2012 games<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_33749\" style=\"width: 508px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-33749\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/mckayla-notimpressed1.jpg\" alt=\"Remember this?\" width=\"498\" height=\"315\" class=\"size-full wp-image-33749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/mckayla-notimpressed1.jpg 498w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/mckayla-notimpressed1-300x190.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 498px) 100vw, 498px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-33749\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Remember this?<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Meanwhile, Douglas was still getting <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bet.com\/lifestyle\/2016\/08\/11\/olympic-athlete-regulations.html\" target=\"_blank\">criticism about her hair<\/a> in addition to everything else. Personally, I couldn&#8217;t tell you a single thing about any of the gymnasts&#8217; hairstyles, except that the hair was all pulled off their faces. I was too busy watching them defy gravity with their bodies. Seriously, people, it&#8217;s a sport &#8212; a sweat-inducing, very difficult sport! &#8212; not a hair-styling convention.<\/p>\n<p>After her last event, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/sports\/olympics\/gabby-douglas-her-olympics-over-tearfully-responds-to-social-media-critics\/2016\/08\/14\/512cfee8-6219-11e6-8b27-bb8ba39497a2_story.html\" target=\"_blank\">Douglas&#8217;s eyes welled up as reporters asked her about the criticism that had become a bigger story than her gymnastic skills.<\/a> She wound up apologizing again for her facial expression. I&#8217;m glad comedian Leslie Jones &#8212; who recently endured social-media attacks herself &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcolympics.com\/news\/leslie-jones-launches-love4gabbyusa-show-gabby-douglas-support\" target=\"_blank\">launched a #LOVE4GABBYUSA hashtag on Twitter so that Douglas could see there are people out there supporting her<\/a>. I&#8217;ll add my two cents. Gabby, research shows that parents everywhere are right: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livescience.com\/12976-esteem-racial-prejudice-psychology.html\" target=\"_blank\">People <em>do<\/em> put you down because they feel bad about themselves<\/a>. Low self-esteem also increases existing racial prejudices. In other words &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/haters-gonna-hate\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/hatersgonnacat.jpg\" alt=\"hatersgonnacat\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-33753\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/hatersgonnacat.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/hatersgonnacat-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8230; but you&#8217;re still great!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last year, the name &#8220;Simone&#8221; was number 820 on the list of popular names for baby girls in the U.S. I expect that in 2016 and 2017, that name will be several hundred places higher, thanks to the awe-inspiring Olympian Simones. Gymnast Simone Biles won her fourth gold medal at the Rio Olympics today. Only&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/the-great-simones-and-gabby-douglas\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":33740,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[49,107],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-33739","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-in-the-news","8":"category-sports","9":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33739","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33739"}],"version-history":[{"count":23,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33739\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33765,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33739\/revisions\/33765"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33740"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33739"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33739"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33739"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}