{"id":31755,"date":"2016-02-04T21:05:57","date_gmt":"2016-02-05T02:05:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=31755"},"modified":"2016-02-04T21:25:22","modified_gmt":"2016-02-05T02:25:22","slug":"valentines-dayanti-valentines-day-countdown-4-of-14","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/valentines-dayanti-valentines-day-countdown-4-of-14\/","title":{"rendered":"Valentine\u2019s Day\/Anti-Valentine\u2019s Day Countdown: #4 of 14"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Day 4 of my February Jewels of the Month countdown for Valentine&#8217;s Day\/anti-Valentine&#8217;s Day. I&#8217;m alternating between the two themes, and it&#8217;s time for an anti-Valentine piece. It&#8217;s also Throwback Thursday, so I&#8217;m going to go with my most popular message necklace, <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/06\/jewels-of-the-month-sulky-and-idgaf-necklaces\/\" target=\"_blank\">introduced in 2012<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_31756\" style=\"width: 370px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Letter-Necklace-%252d-Small%2C-Silver%2C-IDGAF\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31756\" class=\"wp-image-31756 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAF_gold_M1__95981_std.jpg\" alt=\"IDGAF_gold_M1__95981_std\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAF_gold_M1__95981_std.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAF_gold_M1__95981_std-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAF_gold_M1__95981_std-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-31756\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sterling silver. Click to purchase.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Got zero fucks to give about Valentine&#8217;s Day? Treat yourself to this I Don&#8217;t Give a Fuck necklace so everyone knows how you feel.<\/p>\n<p>I frequently wear the 18K gold version.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_31757\" style=\"width: 370px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Letter-Necklace-%252d-Small%2C-Gold%2C-IDGAF\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31757\" class=\"wp-image-31757 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAFresize__36927_std.jpg\" alt=\"Broadsheet_SFC.02-08-2015.ALL.J.5.Style.Advance3.ps\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAFresize__36927_std.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAFresize__36927_std-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IDGAFresize__36927_std-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-31757\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to purchase.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>This necklace can change your life, I swear. I was wearing it when <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/what-wendy-wore-elevator-talk-with-anna-wintour\/\" target=\"_blank\">I not only got into an elevator in the Conde Nast building with Anna Wintour &#8212; I also SPOKE to her<\/a>. In all seriousness, I was emboldened by the necklace. Admittedly, the incident didn&#8217;t change my life in any big, meaningful way, but I&#8217;ve got an awesome story to tell because <a href=\"http:\/\/www.racked.com\/2011\/2\/14\/7773627\/the-ny-times-eric-wilson-totally-calls-out-anna-wintour-for-hogging\" target=\"_blank\">Anna <em>reportedly<\/em> doesn&#8217;t like to share elevators, let alone make small talk in one<\/a>. How many people can say they bellowed, &#8220;HAVE A NICE DAY!&#8221; at Anna Wintour&#8217;s back? I can! Get one of these necklaces, and you too might someday be brave enough to speak to Anna Wintour&#8217;s back.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, the New York Times had <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/02\/01\/business\/media\/conde-nast-adapts-to-new-forces-unsettling-some-inside.html?_r=1\" target=\"_blank\">a great story about Conde Nast and Anna a few days ago<\/a>. I like that she&#8217;s not scared of the changing media environment, which has been undergoing a huge shift away from traditional print towards digital delivery. That&#8217;s what I was dealing with in 2014 as <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2014\/04\/never-is-the-next-new-thing-my-bio-and-columbia-spectator\/\" target=\"_blank\">chairman of the board of trustees at the Columbia Spectator, Columbia University&#8217;s student newspaper<\/a>. Some of our alumni were very reluctant to part with print. But Anna asks, &#8220;Why do people want to get stuck in the past?&#8221; The article ends with this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;&#8216;If we sit back with our quills and the visors on and, you know, the old kind of printing presses that I used to see with my dad,&#8217; she said, referring to her father, Charles, who edited The London Evening Standard, &#8216;what is the point of thinking that way? Come on.'&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>A round of applause for a forward-thinking executive!  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Day 4 of my February Jewels of the Month countdown for Valentine&#8217;s Day\/anti-Valentine&#8217;s Day. I&#8217;m alternating between the two themes, and it&#8217;s time for an anti-Valentine piece. It&#8217;s also Throwback Thursday, so I&#8217;m going to go with my most popular message necklace, introduced in 2012. Got zero fucks to give about Valentine&#8217;s Day? Treat&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2016\/02\/valentines-dayanti-valentines-day-countdown-4-of-14\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":31756,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[295,43,13,607,586],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-31755","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-jewel-of-the-month","8":"category-my-designs","9":"category-necklaces","10":"category-throwback-thursday","11":"category-valentines-day-2","12":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31755","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31755"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31755\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":31763,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31755\/revisions\/31763"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31756"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31755"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31755"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31755"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}