{"id":20491,"date":"2013-05-11T19:12:00","date_gmt":"2013-05-11T23:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=20491"},"modified":"2013-05-11T22:00:22","modified_gmt":"2013-05-12T02:00:22","slug":"jewelry-can-make-you-strong-part-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/05\/jewelry-can-make-you-strong-part-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Jewelry Can Make You Strong, Part II"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I met gorgeous blogger Mardel of <a href=\"http:\/\/restingmotion.typepad.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Resting Motion<\/a> in 2011, when <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/what-wendy-wore-new-york-fashion-week\/\" target=\"_blank\">a group of bloggers gathered for drinks during Fashion Week<\/a>. If she didn&#8217;t have to leave a little early that night, I might have never have gotten around to talking to anyone else. Mardel and I just happened to sit next to each other and bond immediately. A couple of times we said, &#8220;We should probably mingle,&#8221; but then we went right back to our conversation.<\/p>\n<p>I found out that night that Mardel&#8217;s husband was ill, so when <a href=\"http:\/\/ourodyssey.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">blogger<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/LouiseHornor\" target=\"_blank\">Louise Hornor<\/a> directed me to a post on Mardel&#8217;s blog last weekend &#8212; one that she said made her gasp and tear up &#8212; I feared the worst, and rightly so. Hospice has taken over at-home care for Mardel&#8217;s husband. Mardel wrote about how drained she was from being on the phone, answering questions and &#8220;dealing with other people&#8217;s issues.&#8221; She continued, &#8220;Today I felt I needed a totem&#8221; &#8230; and posted this photo of herself wearing my swear rings.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_20614\" style=\"width: 586px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/restingmotion.typepad.com\/restingmotion\/2013\/05\/the-time-in-between.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20614\" class=\" wp-image-20614 \" alt=\"totem\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/totem.jpg\" width=\"576\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/totem.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/totem-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-20614\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Courtesy of Resting Motion. Click for source.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I was surprised and very moved to see that my rings gave her little lift at this difficult time. I said so to Louise, who replied:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20615\" alt=\"mardel\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/mardel.jpg\" width=\"467\" height=\"107\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/mardel.jpg 467w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/mardel-300x68.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She was referring to gorgeous blogger Lynne of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.practicalparalegalism.com\/2013\/03\/i-swear.html\" target=\"_blank\">The Good Will Hunting Paralegal<\/a>, who <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/03\/jewelry-can-make-you-strong\/\" target=\"_blank\">felt empowered by my IDGAF necklace while coping with a family health crisis of her own<\/a>. I&#8217;ve said before that much of the jewelry in my gold and platinum signature line is <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/03\/jewel-of-the-month-empress-wu-dragon-ring\/\" target=\"_blank\">inspired by powerful women<\/a>. But to me, even my social-media-inspired <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/custom-wendyb.php\" target=\"_blank\">WENDYB by Wendy Brandes silver line<\/a> has always been about power.\u00a0 Most of the designs there are ones that make me feel <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/what-wendy-wore-elevator-talk-with-anna-wintour\/\" target=\"_blank\">stronger<\/a> in some way. However, I don&#8217;t presume to know exactly what a piece of my jewelry means to a customer, and everyone is welcome to her own interpretation of what she&#8217;s wearing. I wouldn&#8217;t have dared dream that the jewelry would actually do exactly what I would have wanted it to do in these two cases.<\/p>\n<p>Mardel, you and your husband are in my thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>UPDATED TO ADD: I&#8217;m sad to say that a few minutes after I published this, Mardel posted that her husband, George, had passed away. Click <a href=\"http:\/\/restingmotion.typepad.com\/restingmotion\/2013\/05\/adieu-my-love.html\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> to leave your condolences. <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I met gorgeous blogger Mardel of Resting Motion in 2011, when a group of bloggers gathered for drinks during Fashion Week. If she didn&#8217;t have to leave a little early that night, I might have never have gotten around to talking to anyone else. Mardel and I just happened to sit next to each other&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/05\/jewelry-can-make-you-strong-part-ii\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20614,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,606,8,43],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-20491","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blogs-and-bloggers","8":"category-customer-of-the-day","9":"category-gorgeous-clients","10":"category-my-designs","11":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20491","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20491"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20491\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20625,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20491\/revisions\/20625"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20614"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20491"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20491"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20491"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}