{"id":18982,"date":"2013-02-03T16:18:31","date_gmt":"2013-02-03T21:18:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=18982"},"modified":"2013-02-04T12:34:53","modified_gmt":"2013-02-04T17:34:53","slug":"a-farewell-to-ed-koch-plus-the-week-in-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/a-farewell-to-ed-koch-plus-the-week-in-review\/","title":{"rendered":"A Farewell to Ed Koch, Plus the Week in Review"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I felt like an era ended when former New York City mayor Ed Koch died at 88 on Friday. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2013\/02\/02\/nyregion\/edward-i-koch-ex-mayor-of-new-york-dies.html?smid=pl-share\" target=\"_blank\">When Koch became New York City&#8217;s mayor in 1978, I had just turned 10;<\/a> his third and final term ended on Dec. 31, 1989, eight days after I turned 22.\u00a0 He was the mayor of my childhood, even though my family lived in Mahwah, N.J. I mean, he was The Mayor. The only mayor! He was the one on the local newscasts and in the pages of the New York Times. I had no idea who Mahwah&#8217;s mayor was. To me, the mayor was like the president: there was one, and it was Ed Koch, just like there was one city, and that was New York City. The title &#8220;Hizzoner&#8221; seemed to have been invented for Koch (<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hizzoner\" target=\"_blank\">it wasn&#8217;t<\/a>). To this day, when I think &#8220;mayor,&#8221; I envision Ed Koch.\u00a0 I had always hoped to meet him. He was the quintessential New Yorker, so we thought the same way about a lot of things. For instance, New Jersey:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want to leave Manhattan, even when I&#8217;m gone. This is my home. The thought of having to go to New Jersey was so distressing to me,&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nypost.com\/p\/news\/local\/best_quotes_from_former_mayor_ed_BmcrdhCNwL1lVyA2qxXJWP\" target=\"_blank\">Koch said after purchasing a Manhattan burial plot in 2008<\/a>.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>He also said about Albany, N.Y.:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Have you ever lived in the suburbs? It&#8217;s sterile. It&#8217;s nothing. It&#8217;s wasting your life.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/swampland.time.com\/2013\/02\/01\/hizzoner\/\" target=\"_blank\">Columnist Joe Klein diagnosed Koch with Wisenheimer\u2019s Syndrome<\/a>. Was Koch being a wisenheimer when he suggested protecting the New York subway system from graffiti by installing wild wolves to protect the trains? I don&#8217;t know; it seems effective to me.<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/q5KO2b0kEpU?list=PL4A8313LQdwjgsPwK6qjF5AWci8kENp7J\" height=\"315\" width=\"560\" allowfullscreen=\"\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes Koch simply spoke truths that other people shied away from. I like this quote:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>&#8220;If you agree with me on 9 out of 12 issues, vote for me. If you agree with me on 12 out of 12 issues, see a psychiatrist.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I wish more politicians said things like that these days instead of bragging about how right they are all the time! Also, I defy you to tell me that <a href=\"http:\/\/thestir.cafemom.com\/in_the_news\/150522\/ed_koch_dies_at_88\" target=\"_blank\">Koch&#8217;s diet advice wasn&#8217;t right on the money<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>&#8220;The best way to lose weight is to close your mouth &#8212; something very difficult for a politician. Or watch your food &#8212; just watch it, don&#8217;t eat it.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In honor of Hizzoner, I&#8217;m going to watch a <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2008\/03\/tags-i-has-them\/\" target=\"_blank\">Cadbury Dairy Milk chocolate bar <\/a>right now.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I had on the blog this week:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Monday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/elisabeth-moss-and-her-diamond-studs-at-the-sag-awards\/\" target=\"_blank\">I wasn&#8217;t crazy about Elisabeth Moss&#8217;s diamond studs at the SAG Awards<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Tuesday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/what-wendy-wore-stylists-own-sweater\/\" target=\"_blank\">Stacy Lomman loaned me a sweater.<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Also on Tuesday: When retailers aren&#8217;t interested in my jewelry line, I try to pry a reason out of them in hopes of getting some constructive criticism. <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/too-mainstream-get-the-fuck-out-of-here\/\" target=\"_blank\">This week, I got a response that was batshit crazy<\/a>.\u00a0 Thanks very little, as Stacy Lomman would say.<\/li>\n<li>Wednesday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/omg-worthy-devil-in-vintage-moschino\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Devil and Franco Moschino<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Thursday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/01\/februarys-birthstone-is-amethyst\/\" target=\"_blank\">February&#8217;s birthstone is amethyst<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Friday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/love-valentines-day-hate-it-ive-got-jewelry-for-you\/\" target=\"_blank\">I&#8217;ve got Valentine&#8217;s Day jewelry for people in love &#8230; or out of love<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Saturday: <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/what-wendy-wore-exactly-what-she-was-told-to-wear\/\" target=\"_blank\">Chubby faux-ostrich jacket and Mod white boots<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>UPDATED TO ADD: More great Koch stories from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vanityfair.com\/politics\/purdum\/2013\/02\/ed-koch-unavailable-at-last\" target=\"_blank\">Vanity Fair<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/news\/intelligencer\/maer-roshan-on-ed-koch-2013-2\/\" target=\"_blank\">New York Magazine<\/a>. <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I felt like an era ended when former New York City mayor Ed Koch died at 88 on Friday. When Koch became New York City&#8217;s mayor in 1978, I had just turned 10; his third and final term ended on Dec. 31, 1989, eight days after I turned 22.\u00a0 He was the mayor of my&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/a-farewell-to-ed-koch-plus-the-week-in-review\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[47,143,598],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-18982","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-obits","7":"category-politics","8":"category-week-in-review","9":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18982"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18995,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18982\/revisions\/18995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}