{"id":15542,"date":"2012-05-07T00:15:25","date_gmt":"2012-05-07T04:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=15542"},"modified":"2012-05-06T00:31:45","modified_gmt":"2012-05-06T04:31:45","slug":"nuthin-but-a-g-ring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/05\/nuthin-but-a-g-ring\/","title":{"rendered":"Nuthin&#8217; But a &#8220;G&#8221; Ring"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today is &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/notdeadyetstyle.blogspot.com\/2011\/07\/simple-elegant-streamlined-not-just-me.html\" target=\"_blank\">Visible Monday<\/a>&#8221; over at <a href=\"http:\/\/notdeadyetstyle.blogspot.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Not Dead Yet Style<\/a>. Gorgeous 50-something blogger Patti Gibbons &#8212; who blogs about &#8220;how to look authentic and beautiful in our middle years&#8221; &#8212; is the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tcm.com\/mediaroom\/video\/294431\/Call-Me-Madam-Movie-Clip-Hostess-With-The-Mostest.html\" target=\"_blank\">hostess with the mostest<\/a>. If you&#8217;re a fashion blogger over 40, visit Not Dead Yet Style today to post, in Patti&#8217;s words, &#8220;an outfit, accessory, lipstick color, hairstyle, etc., that <em>especially<\/em> expresses our Joy of Being (Physically)\u00a0Visible. &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The idea of &#8220;Visible Monday&#8221; came out of several of Patti&#8217;s posts, including <a href=\"http:\/\/notdeadyetstyle.blogspot.com\/2011\/06\/invisible-woman.html\" target=\"_blank\">this one<\/a>, about feeling like an invisible woman after a certain age. Ah, it&#8217;s so true that youth is wasted on the young! When I was in my teens and 20s, I had great skin &#8230; and a profound feeling of powerlessness.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15548\" style=\"width: 546px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2007\/11\/home-for-holidays\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15548\" class=\" wp-image-15548 \" title=\"wendy_senior_year_high_school\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/wendy_senior_year_high_school.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"536\" height=\"361\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/wendy_senior_year_high_school.jpg 893w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/wendy_senior_year_high_school-300x201.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 536px) 100vw, 536px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-15548\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">When I was 17, I thought my cheeks were too chubby, but I clearly took pride in my hair.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I felt threatened by everything from sidewalk catcalls to <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/the-multiple-meanings-of-lipstick-and-language\/\" target=\"_blank\">gender-specific job titles like &#8220;chairman.&#8221;<\/a> My mother said I&#8217;d grow out of the &#8220;don&#8217;t look at me&#8221; phase. She was right. Now I practically blow kisses to complimentary dudes on the street, including the toothless junkie who hangs out near my apartment building. I also prefer <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/the-multiple-meanings-of-lipstick-and-language\/\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;chairman&#8221; to &#8220;chair,&#8221; &#8220;chairwoman,&#8221; or &#8220;chairperson.&#8221;<\/a> It seems being older and wiser means I just don&#8217;t give a <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/05\/update-on-topshops-version-of-my-swear-rings\/\" target=\"_blank\">F@#!<\/a> anymore <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/04\/spartacus-madonna-aging-disgracefully-and-yolo-rings\/\" target=\"_blank\">as long as I&#8217;m having fun<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15543\" style=\"width: 370px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=Swear-Rings\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15543\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15543\" title=\"Swear_Rings__82214_std\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Swear_Rings__82214_std1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Swear_Rings__82214_std1.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Swear_Rings__82214_std1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Swear_Rings__82214_std1-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-15543\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My famous swear rings in sterling silver. Click to purchase the set for $380.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Because I&#8217;m a fan of what Patti has to say about women and age, I couldn&#8217;t deny her when she wanted to buy only the &#8220;G&#8221; ring from my OMG ring set, even though I normally don&#8217;t break up multi-ring sets.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15544\" style=\"width: 370px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=OMG-Rings\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15544\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15544\" title=\"OMG_ring_M__87484_std\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/OMG_ring_M__87484_std1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/OMG_ring_M__87484_std1.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/OMG_ring_M__87484_std1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/OMG_ring_M__87484_std1-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-15544\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to buy the set for $300.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>When Patti received the ring, she emailed me, &#8220;I love it! I get a lot of compliments. I change the &#8216;meaning&#8217; at whim: from my proper name, to Goddess, to Girl-power, Glam, G-spot &#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15546\" style=\"width: 490px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15546\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15546\" title=\"pattismall\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/pattismall.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"480\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/pattismall.jpg 480w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/pattismall-300x250.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-15546\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Patti&#39;s G ring.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><center><object width=\"420\" height=\"315\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/1gK1e2TCFAA?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"420\" height=\"315\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/1gK1e2TCFAA?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/center><\/p>\n<p>You can follow Patti on Twitter at <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/pattinotdeadyet\" target=\"_blank\">@PattiNotDeadYet<\/a>. And if your name is &#8220;Mo&#8221; or your mantra is &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dharma-haven.org\/tibetan\/meaning-of-om-mani-padme-hung.htm\" target=\"_blank\">om<\/a>,&#8221; you&#8217;re in luck &#8212; I&#8217;ve got two-thirds of an OMG ring set for you. Holla at me wbjewelry at hotmail dot com if you want to buy the O and\/or M rings from Patti&#8217;s set. <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today is &#8220;Visible Monday&#8221; over at Not Dead Yet Style. Gorgeous 50-something blogger Patti Gibbons &#8212; who blogs about &#8220;how to look authentic and beautiful in our middle years&#8221; &#8212; is the hostess with the mostest. If you&#8217;re a fashion blogger over 40, visit Not Dead Yet Style today to post, in Patti&#8217;s words, &#8220;an&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/05\/nuthin-but-a-g-ring\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15543,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[594,12,42,43,6,302],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15542","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-age","8":"category-blogs-and-bloggers","9":"category-music","10":"category-my-designs","11":"category-rings","12":"category-swear-rings","13":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15542","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15542"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15542\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15553,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15542\/revisions\/15553"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15543"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15542"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15542"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15542"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}