{"id":14378,"date":"2012-02-09T00:01:24","date_gmt":"2012-02-09T05:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=14378"},"modified":"2012-02-09T16:46:57","modified_gmt":"2012-02-09T21:46:57","slug":"be-yo-self-then-buy-rings-for-yo-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/be-yo-self-then-buy-rings-for-yo-self\/","title":{"rendered":"Be Yo Self &#8230; Then Buy Rings for Yo Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I missed yesterday&#8217;s<a href=\"http:\/\/heartifb.com\/ifbcon\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Independent Fashion Bloggers conference<\/a> for the first time since gorgeous blogger Jennine of <a href=\"http:\/\/the-coveted.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Coveted<\/a> launched it in <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2009\/09\/new-york-fashion-week-frocks\/\" target=\"_blank\">September 2009<\/a>. Luckily, I was able to follow the action <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/#!\/_IFB\" target=\"_blank\">on Twitter<\/a> for a while, and I noticed a lot of people were tweeting this advice from the speakers: &#8220;Be authentic.&#8221; Sigh. &#8220;Authenticity&#8221; has become THE buzzword in both the blog and fashion worlds &#8212; and probably many other worlds that I don&#8217;t visit &#8212; so I tweeted, &#8220;The word &#8216;authentic&#8217; is used so often it sounds fake to me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gorgeous Vahni of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gritandglamour.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Grit &amp; Glamour<\/a> agreed, but wondered, &#8220;What else can we say? <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Be_Yo%27_Self\" target=\"_blank\">BE YO SELF<\/a>?&#8221; Yes! I love it. Conveniently, the hashtag is already in use: #BeYoSelf. And it&#8217;s really a shorter version of my &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/frequently-asked-questions\/#13\" target=\"_blank\">Wear What You Want<\/a>&#8221; blog motto. Hmmm &#8230; it might look nice in my header.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_14380\" style=\"width: 535px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/WB_headershchalk.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14380\" class=\" wp-image-14380     \" title=\"WB_headershchalk\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/WB_headershchalk.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"525\" height=\"116\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/WB_headershchalk.jpg 1005w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/WB_headershchalk-300x65.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-14380\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Elizabeth Coyne created a new blog header for me, just in case.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Anyway, if you&#8217;re ever tempted to tell me to be authentic, don&#8217;t. Say something like: &#8220;Don&#8217;t <a href=\"http:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=swagger%20jack\" target=\"_blank\">swagger jack<\/a>, bitch; be yo self!&#8221; I&#8217;ll be much more responsive.<\/p>\n<p>While you&#8217;re working on ways to #BeYoSelf, you should also #BuyYoSelf (or buy the hoe in your life) a set of the Yea Hoe rings I originally made for gorgeous rapper <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/meet-gorgeous-rapper-gangsta-boo-and-her-jewelry\/\" target=\"_blank\">Lola &#8220;Gangsta Boo&#8221; Mitchell<\/a>. The ring set is my pick for Day 9 of my Valentine&#8217;s Day Countdown.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_14383\" style=\"width: 370px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=YEA-HOE-Custom-Rings\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14383\" class=\" wp-image-14383\" title=\"yeahoerings\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/yeahoerings.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/yeahoerings.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/yeahoerings-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/yeahoerings-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-14383\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Click to pre-order.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>These rings are the same size as my sterling silver <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=OMG-Rings\" target=\"_blank\">OMG<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/store\/products.php?product=WTF-Rings\" target=\"_blank\">WTF<\/a> rings, and you wear YEA on one hand and HOE on the other, just like my model Tina J is wearing the OMG and WTF rings in this picture.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_14389\" style=\"width: 442px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/omg-wtf-i-cant-control-myself\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14389\" class=\" wp-image-14389 \" title=\"tinaomgwtf\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/tinaomgwtf.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/tinaomgwtf.jpg 720w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/tinaomgwtf-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 432px) 100vw, 432px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-14389\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tina J gets wild. Click for original post.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I did the first &#8220;Yea Hoe&#8221; rings as a custom job for Boo. &#8220;Yea Hoe&#8221; is her signature rap thang. You can hear it in &#8220;Throw It Up,&#8221; her song with Yelawolf and Eminem. I&#8217;m addicted to this song. I&#8217;m always singing Boo&#8217;s part to myself: &#8220;I see you bitches talkin&#8217; loud, but you ain&#8217;t sayin&#8217; shit\/ Get the fuck from round&#8217; here, you don&#8217;t rep my shit\/ You ain&#8217;t from my city, you don&#8217;t know about this\/ You don&#8217;t want that drama, you ain&#8217;t ready for it, bitch!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><center><object width=\"560\" height=\"315\" classid=\"clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000\" codebase=\"http:\/\/download.macromedia.com\/pub\/shockwave\/cabs\/flash\/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0\"><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"src\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/GBnQq7-dR4c?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" \/><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><embed width=\"560\" height=\"315\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/GBnQq7-dR4c?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" allowFullScreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" \/><\/object><\/center><\/p>\n<p>Boo&#8217;s rings were made in sterling silver, but now I&#8217;m doing them in brass to make them more affordable for her fans. (It&#8217;s my first costume jewelry.) All six rings, in brass, will sell for $115. If you read my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/wendy-brandes\/agony-of-small-business_b_1209235.html\" target=\"_blank\">Huffington Post piece on manufacturing<\/a>, you&#8217;ll know that I&#8217;m placing a large order so that I can produce the rings overseas where production is less expensive. As a result, I&#8217;m going to be drowning in brass rings, but I couldn&#8217;t disappoint Boo&#8217;s fans. Or Boo herself. You know how the (non-Yelawolf) song goes: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Whatever_Lola_Wants\" target=\"_blank\">Whatever Lola wants, Lola gets<\/a>.&#8221; So join Boo&#8217;s #YeaHoe team. Pre-order the Yea Hoe rings now and save me from being up to my ass in brass. <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I missed yesterday&#8217;s Independent Fashion Bloggers conference for the first time since gorgeous blogger Jennine of The Coveted launched it in September 2009. Luckily, I was able to follow the action on Twitter for a while, and I noticed a lot of people were tweeting this advice from the speakers: &#8220;Be authentic.&#8221; Sigh. &#8220;Authenticity&#8221; has&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/be-yo-self-then-buy-rings-for-yo-self\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14380,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,561,584,320,101,564,6,586],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-14378","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blogs-and-bloggers","8":"category-eminem","9":"category-gangsta-boo","10":"category-holiday-gift-ideas","11":"category-holidays","12":"category-huffington-post","13":"category-rings","14":"category-valentines-day-2","15":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14378"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14378\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14392,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14378\/revisions\/14392"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14380"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}