{"id":13035,"date":"2011-11-04T00:02:41","date_gmt":"2011-11-04T04:02:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/?p=13035"},"modified":"2011-11-05T17:30:57","modified_gmt":"2011-11-05T21:30:57","slug":"sucks-to-be-kelly-clarkson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/sucks-to-be-kelly-clarkson\/","title":{"rendered":"Sucks to Be Kelly Clarkson"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last Sunday&#8217;s New York Times had an article about singer Kelly Clarkson called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2011\/10\/30\/fashion\/kelly-clarkson-the-role-model-next-door.html\" target=\"_blank\">Kelly Clarkson, a Pop Star Proud in Her Own Skin<\/a>.&#8221; It looked at how fans identify with Clarkson not just because of her powerful voice and stand-up-for-yourself lyrics but also because of her habit of &#8220;dismissing withering criticism of her weight.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13128\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kellyclarkson.com\/us\/photos\/galleries-official\/behind-scenes%20\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13128\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13128\" title=\"kelly_05\" src=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/kelly_05.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"365\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/kelly_05.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/kelly_05-300x219.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-13128\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">From kellyclarkson.com. Click for source.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Courtney E. Martin, the author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Perfect-Girls-Starving-Daughters-Frightening\/dp\/0743287967\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters: The Frightening New Normalcy of Hating Your Body<\/em><\/a>, told the Times, &#8220;For any woman to not only own her body size at an average woman\u2019s weight is amazing, let alone to own weight gain without shaming and stigmatizing it publicly.&#8221; And Danielle Travali, who described herself to the Times as an eating-disorder survivor, told the newspaper that Clarkson&#8217;s lyrics moved her to tears. &#8220;You get a sense that she\u2019s one of us,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Damn! I don&#8217;t blame people for wanting someone to identify with, but I was a little freaked out to see them so emotionally invested in Clarkson&#8217;s weight, even in a positive way. What if Kelly develops a passion for triathlons and becomes a total hard body? Will her fans think she&#8217;s abandoning them, <em>a la<\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2011\/02\/07\/crystal-renn-talks-about-_n_819797.html\" target=\"_blank\">Crystal Renn, the plus-size model who caused a controversy when she lost weight<\/a>? Does Clarkson have to consider her admirers every time she eats so it&#8217;s not too much, but not too little, either? <\/p>\n<p>Courtney E. Martin acknowledged, &#8220;It\u2019s a difficult line to walk because Kelly\u2019s private. She doesn\u2019t want to be known as the fat activist pop star. That\u2019s not her mantle.&#8221; Still, the Times noted, when Australian talk show hosts last month asked Clarkson if she&#8217;d lost weight, &#8220;She smiled and immediately replied to one, &#8216;No, I have not! Nothing! Everywhere I go, people say that, but nope!'&#8221; It&#8217;s like she has to insist, &#8220;I&#8217;m still what you want me to be.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The Times quoted Clarkson&#8217;s song \u201cYou Can\u2019t Win&#8221;: &#8220;If you\u2019re thin\/Poor little walking disease\/If you\u2019re not\/They\u2019re all screaming obese&#8230;&#8221; Seriously, Kelly! You CAN&#8217;T win. But count me as one listener who will like you the same whether you&#8217;re thicker or thinner as long as <a href=\"http:\/\/wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2009\/11\/how-i-went-gaga\/\" target=\"_blank\">you don&#8217;t have dirty people over for endless house parties<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And thank goodness for jobs that don&#8217;t include &#8220;role model&#8221; in the list of responsibilities. I&#8217;d be fired for failure to perform before I even got a pretty postcard of a beach thumbtacked to the wall of my cubicle!<\/p>\n<p><center><object width=\"420\" height=\"315\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/vEZDP_NVklc?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\"><\/param><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\"><\/param><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\"><\/param><embed src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/vEZDP_NVklc?version=3&amp;hl=en_US\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\"><\/embed><\/object><\/center><\/p>\n<p>UPDATED TO ADD: Danielle Travali, who was interviewed by the Times, says she too will be a fan of Kelly through thick or thin, though she didn&#8217;t clarify her position on hipster house parties. What she values is Clarkson&#8217;s willingness to address painful experiences in her lyrics. Check out her comments below! <\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Sunday&#8217;s New York Times had an article about singer Kelly Clarkson called &#8220;Kelly Clarkson, a Pop Star Proud in Her Own Skin.&#8221; It looked at how fans identify with Clarkson not just because of her powerful voice and stand-up-for-yourself lyrics but also because of her habit of &#8220;dismissing withering criticism of her weight.&#8221; Courtney&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/sucks-to-be-kelly-clarkson\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13128,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10,46,49,42],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-13035","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"category-feminism","9":"category-in-the-news","10":"category-music","11":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13035","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13035"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13035\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13142,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13035\/revisions\/13142"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13035"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13035"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wendybrandes.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13035"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}